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Too Needy

Q: I’ve been dating this guy for about four months now and even though I really do like him, he gets more and more “clingy” with each passing day.  As an example, we’ll go out on a Friday night and he’ll spend the night and usually just end up hanging around my house until Sunday [...]

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The Art of Kissing From Head to Toe – Part Three

My last two articles discussed kissing the neck, face, back, shoulders, chest and more. Now lets move to the hands and arms. That may not sound exciting, but just wait. Let’s start with the forearm and work our  way to the fingertips. You can gently caress the forearm with your hands and your lips. Feather [...]

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5 Keys to Intimate Foreplay

When most people hear the word intimate or intimacy, they immediately have very graphic images of sexual activity. So let’s begin with the definition:  in·ti·mate 1 [in-tuh-mit]  –adjective – characterized by or involving warm friendship or a personally close or familiar association or feeling: an intimate greeting. It is true that intimacy can bring to mind [...]

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Mutual Love Agreement

Create your our own “Love Contract” under your own term Purpose: For any situation in which people are in a relationship, dating, living together or married; to create and agree upon a mutual understanding of relationship boundaries. Why it works: Because both parties are able to express and negotiate their personal needs in a written [...]

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Intimacy & Stress

The following article was solely written and edited by the author named above. First published on May 31, 2006 as: Sex Without Stress. According to the American Institute of Stress, up to 90% of all health problems are related to stress.  Additionally, research confirms that our thoughts and emotions have a dynamic effect on our [...]

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10 Tips To Romance, Friendships, and A Love Connection

Posted by Dianne Sikel on September 9th, 2011

10 Tips to
Connect, Relate & Communicate
With People
If You Want to Find Romance, Meet New Friends &
Develop A Love Connection
Try These Underused Yet Proven Techniques

1.  Smile. Smile at lots of people. Smile at the hostess- the bar staff- other customers… anyone you come in contact with. Be friendly- approachable- and stand out of the crowd

2. Get in a HABIT of chatting with others. Talk to people sitting by you. Start with small chit chat. Simply get in the habit of conversing with all kinds of people (attractive or not) so you get better at striking up a conversation… that’s where it ALL starts

3. Ask questions about them- whoever is near you. Become interesting by being INTERESTED!!! People will notice YOU

4. Use fun phrases and descriptive language. Invest in an Urban Dictionary or Watch MTV to learn how to use cool – Hip words which will make you more interesting

5. Be laid back & Go With The Flow…. This makes people want to be with you. Life is stressful for many people- you appearing as being “laid back” -is very attractive!

6. Update your wardrobe and get a makeover if you need one. A fresh haircut, a manicure, an updated outfit & shoes can speak volumes. Also consider getting your teeth whitened, getting contact lenses and even Lasik to update “Your Look”. THE REALITY IS: We’re very visual-

7. Don’t brag about yourself or tell “fluffy” stories. Be enthusiastic about hearing other people’s stories. Become fascinating by being fascinated about others

8. Wear one fashion accessory or item of interest that the other person may ask you about. (A hat, jewelry, device, a gadget, etc). Have a brief, but good story to tell about it (besides the price)

9. “GET A LIFE”.
Travel, go places, try the new restaurants in town, throw parties, and know what’s Happening in and out of town…. This attracts people- they will want to be part of your Cool Life

10. Don’t be cheap! Send several people a complimentary cocktail of their choice- on You. Don’t single out one or two attractive Prospects. Be generous! It will set you apart by far ~ and the ROI is very good (I promise). I’ve seen it work every time

“I Don’t Like My Lady Part”

Posted by Dianne Sikel on May 25th, 2011
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A very good friend recently told me that she doesn’t like – or have sex because quote- “I don’t like my lady parts… it’s ugly and it’s gross”.
I was blown away. She is a beautiful, smart, vibrant woman with a huge, outgoing personality & is a blast to be with (from a friends perspective).
I have recently heard of women getting vajajay surgeries, but now- someone I know telling me she’s given up an important part of life- because of what her “lady part” looks like…

Where do we draw the line on what we are “supposed” to look like?

Husbands- Want More Sex?

Posted by Dianne Sikel on February 10th, 2011

Guys- if you have a desire to get more action- Hire A Housekeeper! I guarantee if you can take a few items off of your lady’s “To Do” list… it will leave more time & energy for her to DO YOU

Dianne Sikel

www.Life-Love-Money.com

Top 3 Turn Ons

Posted by Dianne Sikel on January 19th, 2011

Kissing Is ForeplayHey Guys- wanna know what turns women on?

Here is what I have found to be VERY Important:

1. Kissing is very important. Kissing is very, very intimate. Try different techniques and variations to your smooches, and make sure there is plenty of them because it its a huge part of getting turned on and for many women kissing IS foreplay

2. Engage with eye contact. This is HUGE! Look into your partners eyes when she is talking. A soft gaze is best…. you don’t want to have a starring contest, but eye contact implies interest and connection.

3. If your partner doesn’t want to have any more children – Get a Vasectomy. When your girl knows there isn’t a risk of getting pregnant- your chances of getting laid skyrockets! This allows for spontaneous sex- which is important to all relationships (especially those of us who are married with children)- scheduling and planning  it  can become a drag

I hope this helps… and please post any other Top Turn Ons that you feel we should know about… we all have something valuable to share- so speak up

Dianne Sikel

Intimacy Advocate

www.Life-Love-Money.com

Highly Sexed People Are More Successful

Posted by Dianne Sikel on January 12th, 2011

If you are a salesperson or in business- you have probably read Think & Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. I think everyone has at least heard about it.

According to Napoleon Hill, SEX is ” The Great Creative Force” and that personal magnetism - that extra ‘something” that some people have- is rooted in sex. He states that “anything you do can be electrifying, positive, and profitable when it is infused with sex emotion.”

What do you think? Is sex a powerful force in your life?

Dianne Sikel

Love & Intimacy Coach

www.Life-Love-Money.com

  • see: Think & Grow Rich with Peace of Mind by Napoleon Hill , 1967 + 2007 (pgs 105-116)

Want One?

Posted by Dianne Sikel on December 27th, 2010
Want One

Want One? A Wedding Ring- that is?

If you wanna keep yours… well we’ll talk about that later?

If you want to get married- you’ve got to date right? To find dates, You’ve gotta go out and meet people. Not only do you need to go out, you’ve gotta engage people in conversation. Have you tried to meet men or women by using cheesy pick up lines? Some pick up lines work & some are huge turn offs.

So, let’s begin by talking about where to find a date or a mate. Online dating services are highly recommended (by me and some friends of mine) however, when you decide to go out you still have to know how to converse with the potential romantic partner.

The best way to be “interesting” is to be Interested. Ask questions. Inquire about the other person. Not like an interogation or a deposition… but in a sincere conversational way. A funny comment or question is a great way to begin a conversation with someone you don’t know -yet

It’s a well known fact that everyone is looking for for love- or at the very least a ‘hook-up’.  Many people have desire- but lack the right words, or the courage to get started seeking a love connection.

For fun~ here are a few goofy but cute lines for you to use to break the ice…

  • “I hope you know CPR because you take my breath away”
  • Are you from Tennessee? Because you’re the only 10 I see
  • Do you believe in love at first sight, or should I walk by again?

or here are some good ol’ fashioned ones that work very well-

  • Hello. How’s your day going?
  • Is this seat taken?
  • I noticed you when you walked in, can I buy you a drink?

Go out today- start talking to people whether they are ‘attractive’ or not… just get used of experiencing PEOPLE. Your life  & You will become more interesting & fun.

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